Time goes fast, how to keep up with the changes?

It occured to me today that I don't keep in touch with nearly as many people as I did in college. One very obvious reason for this is that I am not in college anymore. I am now a working adult. Yikes! I am not ready for that step :( I know I own a house and have been working at my job for the past year and a few months, but being a working adult is a scaring thing to say. I think I will continue to title myself a college graduate. That sounds less scary and more versatile. I am a man of many opportunities after all.

I am also a man of many tangents. Anyway, I wish I were able to keep in touch with more people I was close to during college. When I see them now, I feel as though I have nothing to say. It is a sad thing to me. I wonder if this is part of growing up though. Not that being a grown up means having less relationships, but kindof. Being grown up means more responsibilities which means less time, which means less relationships. Sad but true, at least it is for me. Seems like just yesterday that I would go to Cru and meet about 5-10 new people, talk to old friends, and still have time to talk to the girl I had a crush on.

Maybe I just need to find my niche as an adult. In college I had a niche, why not find one as an adult. Thinking about it, I am not sure every adult would say the things I am saying because adults have niches too. Hmm...where can I find that. I think I will email that person from Woodland hills church about small groups. Maybe I can find a niche there. If you haven't noticed, I like the word niche. It is a fun word. I will let you know how that goes...